I tend to think a lot about what I identify as sexually, because I think about sex a great deal. I don't know how I could seperate one from the other. If sex weren't always on my brain, then I'm not sure if my sexual identity would matter as much to me. I think straight people don't think they spend a lot of time thinking about what they identify as because it's so commonplace; you can't spit without seeing/watching/listening to an example of hetero couplings.

A hetero friend of mine once gave me the whole "Bi people are so greedy. You need to choose" speech. I told him I had picked a side; I choose pretty people. My hetero friends seem to think that I'm bragging or being brazen when I talk about girls, when I'm just relaying my experiences like they tell me about their dates.