I'm a bit ambivalent about gay-for-pay in porn & sex work. That's a complex subject, to my mind. However, the lick-to-camera thing in "lesbian" porn made for hetero men does tend to make me scream with either fury or laughter, depending on the whether.
Women making out with women in bars or such, just to get their men excited makes me want to punch things. Only problem is, I can't make up my mind whether to punch the men or the women. Or just start a punch-storm, and punch everything in the room til it blows up.
The big decisions, you know.
But the thing that gets me right in the urge to murder the fuck out of someone til they die from it, and bring them back so I can do it again, even moreso than transphobic homos, is hetero men who "joke" that they are "a lesbian trapped in a man's body." That is NOT FUNNY. Not funny at all.
On top of the trans!fail and queer!fail of it, which is bad enough on its own, it smacks of unwanted advances and phallocentricism, which only adds to the ick. I got that one a lot when I was coming out; "Hey, I'm a lesbian too, we should totally get it on!" "No. You're not. You're a man. A heterosexual man. And even if you were a lesbian, that wouldn't automatically mean I'd want to sleep with you. Also, GO AWAY. Right now."
Closely followed in squik and rage value by the declaration "Lesbians are a waste of a good vagina." Yeah, that nearly cost the friendship.
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Women making out with women in bars or such, just to get their men excited makes me want to punch things. Only problem is, I can't make up my mind whether to punch the men or the women. Or just start a punch-storm, and punch everything in the room til it blows up.
The big decisions, you know.
But the thing that gets me right in the urge to murder the fuck out of someone til they die from it, and bring them back so I can do it again, even moreso than transphobic homos, is hetero men who "joke" that they are "a lesbian trapped in a man's body." That is NOT FUNNY. Not funny at all.
On top of the trans!fail and queer!fail of it, which is bad enough on its own, it smacks of unwanted advances and phallocentricism, which only adds to the ick. I got that one a lot when I was coming out; "Hey, I'm a lesbian too, we should totally get it on!" "No. You're not. You're a man. A heterosexual man. And even if you were a lesbian, that wouldn't automatically mean I'd want to sleep with you. Also, GO AWAY. Right now."
Closely followed in squik and rage value by the declaration "Lesbians are a waste of a good vagina." Yeah, that nearly cost the friendship.