Your unhappiness is your own business, and fuck anybody who considers it an affront.I'm speaking from my own experience here, but: we can't be tyrannized into happiness, just so we can fit into somebody else's norm.

As to Facebook versus here - it's nice that I can comment here, and I feel honoured (that might sound bombastic, or smarmy - I hope not) that you respond. That doesn't mean I can claim you as a friend, but there are respects that should be observed, that Facebook cannot guarantee. Common courtesy isn't common, sadly.

Waffle aside - Book Thief bought - will begin tomorrow.